



Eli is so cute! We had a great day with him today. We finally got out of the cracker box room and they put us in the music room. It was wonderful and we really had good bonding time. He is now clapping his hands and waving goodbye. He enjoys baby massages. He will fit in well with this family. He likes to suck his thumb and cuddle his "snot rag" as we like to call it.
This is a list of our likes and dislikes in Kazakhstan. Bear with us if we have mentioned some of this before.
Likes:
1. Eli! He is such a blessing. It is amazing and awesome to think how God matches a child with a family. It feels as if he was meant to be ours.
2. People are quiet in Pavlodar. The city is quiet overall with the exception of a few barking dogs.
3.People dress nice here. Most people are in dress clothes of dark colors all the time. Many wear fur coats and hats. I wanted to buy a mink or sable hat but what I've found is about $300. Too high! I'm still looking though.
4. The snow covering the city is beautiful. We also enjoy looking at their Christmas lights with the snow in the background. They celebrate New Years in Jan. instead of Christmas on Dec. 25 as we do. We have found Santa Claus and some Christmas cards with the Nativity on them however.
5. The quality family time is great. We have grown closer to one another as well as to Eli. Abbie and Issie have been super! They have always kept themselves entertained (i.e. 1-They used Abbie's bra as a slingshot to propel pink bear across the room, 2-They chase each other around the apartment as each pretends to be Ghengis Khan.)
6.Our Canadian neighbors have been wonderful. Joe and Anna are adopting a 9 month old little boy. He is in the environmental part of the oil business and she is a speech therapist. She is Russian. They live in Edmondton, Alberta.
7. We have found some of the food to be good, especially in the restaurants.
8.Our apartment is clean and spacious.
9.We have an internet cafe close to our apartment.
10. When the showers work they are good and hot.
11.They have a beautiful Russian Orthodox church here.
12. The trees are nice.(especially snow covered)
13. Sandra likes how they start their day later than we do.
14. We have always felt safe.
15. It is a fascinating culture here and they love their children. They are so cute bundled up like eskimos being pulled on sleds.
16. We have great translators(Elena and Simbat) who are a phone call away. Simbat likes to spend time with us and learn about America and our "slang". I told Sandra that our Southern Illinois dialect would really confuse her.
17. Scented toilet paper
18. We like all of the music we have heard.
19. We enjoyed visiting the Korean Christian Church. Their minister asked us if we believed in God. I pointed to a picture of Jesus and said,"Yes, in Jesus". That was one time that the language barrier didn't matter.
20. Walks along the Irtish River are nice. (but cold)
21. The Russian outdoor channel is interesting. They have some American hunting and fishing shows on there; however, it is still in Russian. It is still fun to watch.
22. ESPN and CNN
Dislikes:
1.The language barrier stinks! I wish I spoke Russian.
2. Public bathrooms. In some places you have to pay extra for toilet paper if you are lucky enough for them to have any. (better hope you have some money) We have learned to first of all use the bathroom in our apartment, and secondly to carry kleenex with us at all times. Some bathrooms are simply a hole in the ground. (We have not seen any of those yet thankfully.)
3. The climate is very cold and dry.
4. People won't speak to you and often cut in front of each other (and you) in line. Needless to say, I've quit holding the door for people and we root in there with rest of them. This is more normal for their culture than trying to be nice. When in Rome......
5. The way they do business drives us crazy. It is at their own pace and slow.
6. The buildings have a very drab exterior. They definately have a Soviet influence.
7. The water in our apartment comes out of the tap discolored. You definately do not drink it!
8. The plumbing system is very odd and sometimes unreliable. I've quit trying to figure it out.
9. The security guards in the malls and stores followed us around our first couple of times in them. It has gotten better as they've gotten used to these American hillbillies.
10. The drivers are wild and honk a lot here. We have just seen one wreck however. If a car quits another will tie a ski rope to it and pull it down the road. Look Out!
11. See thru curtains in apartment or none at all. Good place for peeping toms.
12. Not much selection in the grocery stores. 25% of the store is pasta noodles. Wal-mart would blow their minds.
13. Climbing up the stairs is good exercise. It really stunk however carrying all of our suitcases up. We are on the 5th floor by the way. Elevators are very uncommon around here.
Overall we are having the time of our life, despite a few bumps in the road.
Brian